Disrespect !
I was really upset this afternoon. :(
He posted his blog up in his friendster site. He wrote abt us and what went wrong that resulted to the break-up. I was upset and pissed when I read it.
I know I cant stopped him from writing anything and publishing in the web. I was upset becos it was done in his friendster account. Reason:
1) He has got 160+ friends, and a lot of which are not ple who are close anyway.
2) We have quite a lot of common friends and some of them I’m not very close with definitely not comfortable letting them know too much of a details abt my private life.
3) a number of people in his account are ple from union sq and they are ple I do not really know too, thus sharing my private life with them is not what i like.
4) everyone knows everyone is some sort linked in friendster. I have friends in my account as well that I do not want them to know too much abt my past and what had happened between my ex and me.
5) Although no name is stated, ple know abt me still…
6) I do not like others to judge me becos of what he had written. It’s very one sided, that is his side of story and I have mine as well. So ple who knows me and him reading it MIGHT judge me differently. Friendster is all linked.
He can blogged it somewhere else, where I’m not linked to him, my friends are not linked to him. Not at friendster where he had all his contacts be it closed or not closed to. He might as well publish it in the papers… such a disgrace! If he doesn’t want face, I do care abt mine.
He posted his blog up in his friendster site. He wrote abt us and what went wrong that resulted to the break-up. I was upset and pissed when I read it.
I know I cant stopped him from writing anything and publishing in the web. I was upset becos it was done in his friendster account. Reason:
1) He has got 160+ friends, and a lot of which are not ple who are close anyway.
2) We have quite a lot of common friends and some of them I’m not very close with definitely not comfortable letting them know too much of a details abt my private life.
3) a number of people in his account are ple from union sq and they are ple I do not really know too, thus sharing my private life with them is not what i like.
4) everyone knows everyone is some sort linked in friendster. I have friends in my account as well that I do not want them to know too much abt my past and what had happened between my ex and me.
5) Although no name is stated, ple know abt me still…
6) I do not like others to judge me becos of what he had written. It’s very one sided, that is his side of story and I have mine as well. So ple who knows me and him reading it MIGHT judge me differently. Friendster is all linked.
He can blogged it somewhere else, where I’m not linked to him, my friends are not linked to him. Not at friendster where he had all his contacts be it closed or not closed to. He might as well publish it in the papers… such a disgrace! If he doesn’t want face, I do care abt mine.
I only choose to tell ple I am close with my past and problems … and not the whole fucking world!!!
I asked him to remove it. He said I was absurd and kicking a fuss. He feels it’s nothing wrong. To me, it’s just disrespect. If you’re writing abt someone, you need to consider abt the other party feelings and presences, not to mentioned that I was ever someone dear. This incident clearly reflect that he’s once again selfish. He once again disregard and say the things he wants to say without considering my feelings. He is only concern abt his own life and how he feels himself.
The whole thing was like a nightmare to me. Suddenly he turned into my ex boyfriend from hell. He just ended any friendship that is left between us. It’s just disappointment to me.
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