philosophy of life

Today a fre told me something that strikes me thinking.... our philosophy of life.

A couple needs to share the same philosophy in the life as to what we want to pursue, the marriage, family to raising the kids. My fre also asked me if i have the same philosophy as my partner, which is impt. I dun know. I have never really thought about this and have never ask my partner this Q as well.  So maybe this is really impt, which is why so many of my r/s failed in the past?

Gem of Life

Over the past 2.5 weeks I have been busy chasing 珠光寶氣.

Morale of the story…
You may wish to be a famous socialite
You may wish to have fame and fortune
But is that really what you will wish for at the end

Gosh the story is good! Actually in this show the person I admire most is “Jessica” who knows what kind of life she wants right at the very start. She’s just so focus to find a rich husband and lead a socialite lifestyle. Not only a rich husband but also the most powerful one! Haha. Hmm… in real life, how many of us are as focus as that? Come to think of it, I do know of a friend who aim for rich guys only, and sure enough she really married someone rich and now she’s tai tai.

As for me, it kind of sets me thinking what kind of life I want. Ofcos it is always good to married someone rich, which makes life a lot easier rite? but on the other hand, I dun think I choose someone based on that criteria. So maybe I am the sort that follows my heart more…. But is this what I really want in the end as well? … haha… .life is all about choices and our life is the path we choose…

work

One day last week, I had a text from my ex-colleague. It was then that I found out that there was a retrenchment in my previous company in my team. Gosh, 2 person gone and one is a very senior gal handling an important account. Shocking as it is, it also sets me thinking how things would have turned out if I was still there. Will I be retrenched. Although taking the package seems attractive enough (at else 7-8months) but staying back as the remaining team is also another headache…. Gosh, just one year after I left, and so many chances and things would have been so different if I had not taken on this path.

I don’t know how life will turn out in HRP but the purpose to leave my comfort zone back then was to make more money. Which I did in the past months….. Life is goin to be difficult in the coming more months with the economy downturn…. Guess work is even harder, more efforts for the same thing. And is time like this that we realized, a job is certainly important to hold on to.