Multi-tasking
People often say that women can multi-task better than men? Is this true? hmmm...?! Well for sure I know that we women can talk on the phone, paint our toe nails, watch tv, keep an eye on our younger siblings/ kids, and flipping thru magazines... Oh, I even saw some woman, driving and putting on their makeup/ curling their lashes, applying lipstick.... OR talking on the phone, reading and replying emails in the office. Phew... Talk abt multi-task indeed. In that aspect I think we're a lot beta than most men. I think the best a man can handle multi-tasking is reading the paper while shitting. :P
Since women are good at multi-tasking, can we also "multi-dates"?? Meaning going out with several people we quite fancy? I don't know... I think in that aspect we lose out to men. I think we're more focus when it comes to affairs of the heart. Just so happened to wonder on this for the past weeks so I actually asked ard a few of my gfs... I think we can only focus on one guy at a time; it's rather diff for us to date another or a few with the same type of feeling. Well at least my gfs ard I am like tat too. But I have known guys who can be seeing many other gals at one go. When I say "seeing" or "dating" here, I mean just going out on a very regular basis not the very serious pak tor type yet.
One classic example is :
GF A: she has been going out with this guy for a while now... somehow the guy is not giving her a favorable answer to the r/s yet.... on the other hand she has other suitors who has been asking her out or texting her on a regular basis.... We conclude that nothing will ever turn out with other suitors cos she's not focus on those and her heart and mind is only just so occupied with one. so we have to dump one before we can move on to another. haha.
It's also like we can only have one "craving" at a time. Craving for foie gras can never be satisfied with other livers or food. It has to be that to gives you that fulfillment. Until that craving is solved/ or gone, we'll start to crave for others... ...
Since women are good at multi-tasking, can we also "multi-dates"?? Meaning going out with several people we quite fancy? I don't know... I think in that aspect we lose out to men. I think we're more focus when it comes to affairs of the heart. Just so happened to wonder on this for the past weeks so I actually asked ard a few of my gfs... I think we can only focus on one guy at a time; it's rather diff for us to date another or a few with the same type of feeling. Well at least my gfs ard I am like tat too. But I have known guys who can be seeing many other gals at one go. When I say "seeing" or "dating" here, I mean just going out on a very regular basis not the very serious pak tor type yet.
One classic example is :
GF A: she has been going out with this guy for a while now... somehow the guy is not giving her a favorable answer to the r/s yet.... on the other hand she has other suitors who has been asking her out or texting her on a regular basis.... We conclude that nothing will ever turn out with other suitors cos she's not focus on those and her heart and mind is only just so occupied with one. so we have to dump one before we can move on to another. haha.
It's also like we can only have one "craving" at a time. Craving for foie gras can never be satisfied with other livers or food. It has to be that to gives you that fulfillment. Until that craving is solved/ or gone, we'll start to crave for others... ...
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